Such nonsense you speak! The length, color, size or shape of your hair is no way indicative of your identity! It is personal expression — and the same thing can be said for the clothes you wear!
Be whoever it is that you believe yourself to be. Pay no attention to the jeers and needless criticisms of those around you; the only one who knows you is you. It is no one else’s concern how you choose to express yourself!
Dress however it is that pleases you, Greyface. However, you must also refrain from doing the same. ‘Trollop’ is an unkind word, when those maidens are simply exacting the same right as yourself to express themselves in a way they deem fit! That does not make them any less deserving of respect, for we must respect all of those around us — unless given cause otherwise!
If I decided to venture out in a gown fashioned from red velvet that exemplified the glorious magnitude of the hair on my chest, that would not make me any less of Thor Odinson, heir to the throne of Asgard! Our clothes, our hair, tattoos and markings on our skin do not define who we are! Disregard the naysayers, for they matter little!
So long as you are happy, my friend. So long as you are happy.